Bes

*** taken from my old blog, posted on 08/09/2012 ***

Just recently, Nat, my college buddy, sent me a text message. At first, I wasn’t able to recognize the number he used for it was not yet registered on my phone. Good thing it was not a prank message. And after the confirmation and all that, he decided to call me instead. Since we haven’t heard from each other for a few years, there were a lot of topics that came out; updates and all kinds of stuff. We missed each other so much. Reminisce the good ol’ times was one of the things that we've talked about which made me realize how time flies so fast. It took us almost an hour on the phone, I guess, but it felt so great to hear from him again. He made me miss his company and he also felt the same.

Back in our college years, we seldom hang out together but we called each other “bes” (short for bestfriend) though. I think it’s because we are under the same "hood". After college, I haven’t heard from him since. (or I just don’t really remember) LOL

sorry 'bout the photo, just chose this among the search results LOL

And just a couple of hours ago we exchanged text messages regarding his concerns. Probably asking for my opinion or say to his idea of going abroad. But as usual, there’s still a consequence/s beneath it. So, I gave out my suggestion/opinion, then I told him that it’s already up to him if he’ll follow that or not. And ask Him for a sign, which he agreed. He again decided to call me up (coz I think he’s not a texter-type like me) and we had a heart-to-heart talk. Exchange of thoughts about our respective partners, experiences, dilemmas, and so on.

After our wonderful conversation, I feel a whole lot better, so much lighter, for I was able to express what I’m feeling deep inside. And he also made me realize what I have right now, a very distinctive feeling that I can’t find anywhere or with someone else in the world. Love.

Thanks Nat, I really do appreciate everything. Hope we could get together soon. A double-date perhaps? LOL

Shave It Up

Just a week or so I have decided to shave my thing. I didn’t know what came over me why I did that but after doing so, it feels so refreshing!

When I was in college, I only thought of trimming my pubes due to its heavy volume. I don’t even know if there’s a special treatment for pubes like shampoos or hair conditioners but I didn’t mind. Then I went ahead with my first ever trimming of pubes moment. The feeling was so awkward whenever I move, sit, etc. I was not used to it, really. But now, the feeling of hairless or "pubeless" is so liberating. What more if I have it waxed! WHEW! I’m looking forward into that but thinking about some stranger (or a professional for that sort, I don’t care) who will touch and see my thingy would be too uncomfortable for me. Maybe I will just have to do it myself then. HEHEHE! I would experiment with my body since I would also benefit that along the way. If you are going to ask me, I would simply say “Nakaka-ignorante ang pakiramdam!” Everything feels new to me! It feels light, those times that you won’t worry about the hair getting caught by your belt thingy, and so on.

Since it’s been more than a week now, it is already growing. It already feels rough, itchy, and sometimes it already hurts my penis. Given that I have already started this, I guess I need to do this a weekly habit then.

Cheers to shaving your balls!!! WOOHOO!!!

The Invitation

In my 28 years of existence, any member of my family has never been invited to the Barangay Hall due to a neighbor’s complaint. We even lived in a slum area, a community wherein 24 hours there are very active people roaming around or standing by the streets. And I have lived that type of neighborhood in thirteen long years. Never, as in never in my life we got involved to a commotion, that’s why during that time, my mother and our family have never experienced disrespect from anyone.

I came up of this topic due to an approach that our neighbors have given us lately. It started when we began the house work a week ago. We’ve been planning to make this house-improvement it’s because our humble home was not done yet. There are parts that still need some final touch or plastering to avoid water from coming in if there are heavy rains. The exterior walls are also in need of the said work. This requires extended setup that may overlap to our neighbors’ property or private space. Well, of course, we already did ask permission beforehand to avoid conflicts. The only problem is that these neighbors have this certain attitude that most of us Filipinos have, Crab Mentality or Insecurity. I hate to say this but we’ve been surrounded by these people, which led for the other to escalate it to the Barangay Officers for a “trespassing complaint”. How brilliant! Because of this, I would love to place a cape and a crown on them to pay tribute for their foolishness!

After the argument and throwing of accusations, both parties haven’t come up of any agreement since the disgraceful neighbor was being a brat. Thus, the father sent another invitation which is set later in the afternoon. I don’t know what they wanted to discuss over with but I would definitely have to have an open mind to weigh things over, like any other educated and mature person does. BOOM!

I was planning to get a hold of an attorney to learn more on how we fair in this situation in terms of The Philippine Law. Any referrals, peeps? That would be greatly appreciated.